tbi and dating - Simple chinese dating phrases

So “Cute” is the best, and it can be used on all kinds of girls. Plan B: dramatic and “honest” 我一般不会这样的,但是我一看到你,我就想过来跟你说话,而且我觉得如果我不这么做的话,我之后一定会后悔的。我可不可以请你喝杯咖啡/茶? wǒ yì bān bú huì zhè yàng de, dàn shì wǒ yí kàn dào nǐ, jiù xiǎng guò lái gēn nǐ shuō huà, ér qiě wǒ jué de rú guǒ wǒ bú zhè me zuò de huà, wǒ zhī hou yí ding huì hòu huǐ de. However, if she is with a lot of girls, then it is good, because it will make her look very good in front of other girls and satisfy her vanity to a large extent. For example, if you ask “what do you like to eat usually/你平时爱吃什么 [nǐ píng shí ài chī shén me]?

The ways to phrase the question could be: Plan A: simple and honest 我觉得你很可爱,我可以请你喝杯咖啡/茶吗? [wǒ jué de nǐ hěn kě ai, wǒ kě yǐ qǐng nǐ hē bēi kā fēi/ chá ma? Girls are all jealous, so make sure you make use of that in the right way. If she does not immediately say yes to your coffee offer, but she is hesitating, then do not say anything stupid, actually, do not even say anything. If after five seconds there is still no answer, then you can ask her again “May I buy you a coffee? The quietness is necessary because it shows that you are a gentleman and you wait for the lady to make up her own mind. What happens after Once she agrees to have coffee or tea with you, it is already half successful. ” Maybe she says “cheese cake/奶酪蛋糕 [nǎi lào dàn gāo].” You can say: “Oh, what a coincidence, I’m also a big fan of cheese cake, and I happen to know a really nice cheese cake place, maybe we can go together next time/ 哦,真巧,我也喜欢吃奶酪蛋糕,而且我正好知道一家不错的奶酪蛋糕店,下次我们一起去好吗 [o, zhēn qiǎo, wǒ yě xǐ huān chī nǎi lào dàn gāo, ér qiě wǒ zhèng hǎo zhī dào yì jiā bú cuò de nǎi lào dàn gāo diàn, xià cì wǒ men yì qǐ qù hǎo ma]?” In this way, it is very likely you get a second date.

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That is the most important thing for Chinese girls: “being nice to her”.

In this kind of conversations, the trick lies in the emphasis on the “I” and “you”, so you must say: “I bought coffee for you.”, then subconsciously, you are already putting thoughts in her mind: it is about “you” and “me”.

A lot of westerns males want to know how to flirt with Chinese girls, well, the Chinese guys are also wondering about the exact same question.

While a lot Chinese guys are not open and confident enough to talk with their female peers, the main problem of western guys is that most of the time they are over-confident and too audacious.

There is a saying in Chinese “知己知彼,百战不殆 [zhī jǐ zhī bǐ, bǎi zhàn bù dài]”, which means “Precise knowledge of self and precise knowledge of the threat leads to victory”.

So the first thing we will discuss here is to know who and what kind of girls you are flirting with.

Also do not push it too far when you try to give her a compliment. “Beauty (美女[měi nǚ])” is rather abused in the current Chinese culture so if you are unlucky, she might frown at the word “beauty”. I think I’ve met you somewhere” card, or the “do you have a map? They are both cheesy and untrue, though in a different way, and girls will not take you seriously. Try to make your move when she is alone or with a lot of people.

“Beautiful” could have two translations in Chinese, one is “漂亮 [piào liàng]”, which is too casual, the other one is“美[měi])”, which is too literal. If she is with one or two female friends, that’s the worst timing, because she will not abandon her “girlfriend” and go with you.

So the problem we need to deal with is how to ask a Chinese girl and not get “shot down” at the first place. My suggestion is to be honest, and completely open.

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