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I tell you this not to come off as negative but to share with you a harsh reality.

It is in your best interest to understand that if a man is serious about you then he will be prepared to take action to back that up.

He told you he doesn’t want a relationship so why are you still essentially giving him one?

I know many women may be saying “why can’t men just be more honest about what they want”.

If you choose to entertain this man and it all ends in disappointment he still can say “well I told you I didn’t want a relationship”.

The confusion comes from not understanding how many men operate.

He is not prepared to be obligated to you or to commit to you.

He wants to be able to deflect your questioning of his actions and his whereabouts.

You can continue to give and give and give yet still find yourself many months later with no relationship and possibly with him moving while making some other women his girlfriend.

If he hasn’t made you his girlfriend after a good amount of time what makes you think that continuing to give him benefits is going to make him change his mind any month now.

Regardless you continue to deal with him and it’s like you two are basically in a relationship.

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