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This is an interesting behavioral pattern of an anxious-avoidant.

She wants things to get deeper -and can’t wait for that to happen- but at the same time she’s scared to get deeper herself without assurance/guarantee that they are a couple (I’m sure you’re familiar with the whole routine here).“So, great date Friday night. In past relationships where there has been a similar level of intimacy, attraction and interest, a momentum builds due to communication and frequency of seeing each other.

I know I wasn’t when I first met my ex, having just been out of a 9-year relationship but I thought I wanted a relationship. Ruby, having just broken up from her boyfriend only a less than a year ago, is exactly in that stage. Bringing the talk only makes you appear presumptuous,dramatic and pushy.

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You telling him what you think he should do or what you want isn’t going to make him grow more liking toward you or want to come closer to you. If the thousands of women who find me thanks to this junk advice of bringing up the talk are of any indication, it’s really a waste of time and energy to even contemplate doing this. You getting all huffed and puffed because he’s not where you are at the moment even makes you less appealing to him. He likes you, he enjoys your company but he feels like you’re making him an asshole for not wanting what you want exactly when you want it.

That is pretty bossy and pushy, isn’t it, now that someone puts it that way? He’s having his boundaries and I’m stepping all over them because I feel justified to feel how I feel for whatever reason I hold in my head. “Everything on his terms” is following and trusting his leadership in my book.

As women, are we always to lean back and just accept whatever he does, even if it doesn’t work for us? And yes, still dating other guys, but no one has compared.

Is it ok to communicate to him somehow that I love hearing from him?

They fall for the guy exactly because he’s safe and distant.

Say for whatever reason, he’s so sure about wanting a relationship with them, I bet they’ll run for the nearest hills cause “he’s just needy” or “possessive.” You are not ready yourself for anything serious.

Even when he’s not ready or he’s not the one, when you move on he won’t easily forget a woman like you because you leave such an imprint in his mind. He has never met a woman like you: so dignified, so cool, so mature, so soft, feminine and non reactive.

And if there is ever a chance for both of you to have a relationship in the future, you’ll be the first whose door he knocks on.

Find a few guys who are just like him and you will never have to so get ahead of yourself or any guy.

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