Dating in the dark side dating and seduction for dummies

This can create major conflicts, as all too often, what our ears hear, is not what the mind feels.

And, ironically, sexual chemistry is what every person hopes they will find on a date. In days of old, when sexual restraint was in vogue and sexual opportunity was scarce, a legend grew that sexual chemistry was something the lucky few had.

It was the holy grail of love, if only one could find it.

Understand, we do not react well to casual sarcasm, or "poking fun at", as generally to us, it's not at all funny. Any negativity in the middle of a conversation, can literally wipe out any positive aspects the conversation might have had, as the negative often takes on a much heavier weight than the positive statements.

Just as we can and do, feel and full fill a partner’s needs, we can also feel what you are really feeling, meaning we know when you are trying to evade the issue.

They simply cannot believe you mean it when you say ...

"I love you" when to them, there has not been enough time to get to know them well enough to say that.

But down the road, when couples reach the stage of mature companionate love, those with the hottest sexual chemistry early on feel like something has died.

They confuse sex with love and when their sex life transforms, they feel they have fallen out of love.

It is this seductive cocktail of attraction that makes people engage in dangerous sexual behavior.

Sexual chemistry is a captor who blindfolds your rational brain, unhinges your steering wheel and releases you as a blind driver.

Entranced by the delicious whiff of compatible pheromones hovering over the candlelit table, the man and woman barely spoke.

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