Dating a guy with no kids who is city spud dating
I want to know what to do because I really do like him and I think we could be good together if we could find a way to overcome this issue.
I just want a chance with him to see if it can work out. If you've already talked to him about this issue, there's not too much you can do about it. Leave a message for him and see what happens but if someone's ready, they're not ready.
It was twice the heartbreak and has made me reevaluate my involvement level in the future." "Miserable.
This weekend my friend asked him what was going on and he told her that he really likes me and doesn't mind being just with me but that the relationship could never develop into anything serious because I have 3 kids. I understand him in a way because he is young, single and has no children of his own.
Also he comes from a very opinionated family and I really think that is really what he is concerned about, what his family will think of this.
I haven't been too thrown by the situation, since I don't live with the kids, and he only has them half the time so they aren't at his house constantly either.
I think there've been two major effects though: 1) They take a LOT of time and energy - they are really his primary relationship.
He's not in that stage of his life(and for some guys, it'll never happen) where he's ready to handle 3 kids. I am in the same situation idk what to do he recently told me i need my space.
Which is fine cause we did move fairly quickly in the relationship but.
One of them being: do not get involved with the kids until the relationship is very secure and serious. It's a weird, uncomfortable place to be because I was not able to say goodbye or explain anything.
With my ex things didn't work out and I hadn't expected to get as attached as I did. I was virtually forced to disappear from this kid's life.
But like their father, their mother could also be a neglectful/irresponsible parent.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating