Asian parents no dating

But if you’ve been dating long enough that you’re living together or even married, it’s time to hide everything!

Tell your parents that you haven’t been home for a while because you’re working three full-time marketing jobs and that you’re only unmarried because you haven’t met the right engineering CEO.

They’ll be too proud of you to ask any more questions! Look around frantically with your hands up and say, “Wait what?? Haha, I don’t know what you’re talking about because I just hatched from a egg!!

But there is an entire additional level of stress when, for some reason, you discover d put strain on your home life.

When you discover your parents strongly disapprove of your bf/gf, your first inclination will be to pull away from them and continue your dating relationship behind their back. Never secretly date someone your parents don’t want you to date.

Finding someone you love who loves you in return can be difficult.

Then learning how to deal with conflicts within a relationship can be painful, as well.

Having secrets and lies between you and your parents ruins trust and causes needless stress and drama which will affect your self-esteem, grades, and even your other friends.

Just because they are your parents and you don’t agree with them, that doesn’t make them dumb.

Although far from perfect, they have years of experience and wisdom that you don’t have yet.

This might enable them to see the character faults in your bf/gf a whole lot easier than you, especially if you’re blinded by the deep emotions you feel for your bf/gf.

If your bf/gf refuses to meet with your parents, that’s a sure sign he/she is not respectful to you or your parents.

Sometimes parents’ expectations for whom you should date can be too high, but often your expectations are too low.

The more people I talked to, nobody wanted us together. Chances are, your parents have more wisdom than you do and it’s a good idea to take their advice. It only shows them you are too immature to be in the relationship they are so worried about.

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