Apathetic about dating

So if you’re never there for her, never show interest in her emotions, or accomplishments, and act like the perfect absent father, you’ll have her screaming daddy for all your neighbors to hear.

I’m a 5 foot 9 hairy Jew who had no business with this woman.

In that moment of our first interaction, I genuinely had more interest in getting a shot of tequila than talking to her and she sniffed out the disinterest like it was the ‘take your daughter to work day’ her dad never took her on.

I’m no ladies man and certainly not a smooth operator.

I’m not great looking nor do I have hundreds hanging out of my fly.

You make excuses about why this isn’t working, it’s because women want guys with money, with better looks, who stand taller and have bigger vag torpedos.

While women do care about all of these things, it’s not what they really want. Even a guy who possesses all of those desirable traits can lose a woman by showing he is interested. Maybe it has something to do with her affection for the absent men in her life.That's why I've just thrown up my hands, and kind of..with whatever the day brings me.And now I'm worried that being proud of my chilled-out, let-it-all-wash-over-me attitude I've been trying to take toward dating is actually apathy in disguise; maybe, I should actually be striving toward some sort of balance instead.The most important rule from the Tao of Steve is to be desireless. It’s not about being an asshole, though over time the general consensus among women will be that you are in fact an asshole, but really they’re just mislabeling apathy. It’s the inner stripper rooted in daddy issues manifesting itself.If you were really an asshole, she’d have no interest in you from the start. You can thank her absent father or alcoholic stepfather for that.So you’re a little overweight, average looking and spend most of your time bar hopping with your brolos.

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